How am I supposed to do that?

So one of my coworkers has this friend who claims she is a psychic. I'm not sure how much I believe in this stuff, but it is always interesting to hear. She told me once that she doesn't see children in my near future, but to keep trying. Now she's telling me that I should try not to focus on having a child so much. How exactly am I supposed to do that? I can't stop thinking about it, especially since I started going back to the RE after being away for a little over a year. My coworker, who has been through infertility herself, told her friend that is near impossible for a lot of us going through this.

I'm going to try to get into making my own beaded jewelery since one of the women in my support group showed us what she made and it was really pretty. I figure I could do that since I tried knitting, and I just can't do it. Anyone have any ideas? I doubt I will ever be able to take my focus away from having children, but I suppose I can try new hobbies to help with that.